Thursday, 20 August 2015

How things change

Back again, while I have been away I went to my Granddaughter wedding arranged in most unusual circumstances. A friend of a friend of theirs had booked a wedding at one of those hotel places where they do weddings as a speciality and paid a hefty non returnable deposit. All was well until his bride to be left him with a non wedding and a loss of £5000. His friend said why don’t you sell it, I know a couple who are always talking of getting married and so it was that my Granddaughter had a very sudden wedding. Naturally we went and were surprised at the grandeur of it all. It seems to me that weddings have increased out of all proportion with the meal alone reputedly costing £60 a head.

I remember when we got married the buffet cost 7/6 a head (37.5p) and we got married in a room above a pub as I remember it we seemed to have a lot more fun. We married in March so that we got maximum benefit from the tax rebate which was available at the time. If you married just before April 6th you were classed as married for the whole of the previous year and so were paid a rebate, I thinks ours was £25 or something like it. We left our wedding by train for the Midlands and a 22’ caravan in a field near to where my husband worked. We took a taxi to our new home and caused the driver a little concern when we asked him to stop by a hole in a hedge which we passed through to start our new life together. To us it was more important to be together than wait to save for the fripperies of to-days weddings. Still the world has moved on but it’s fun to look back and enjoy our memories both long and short.

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